You mustn't care about what people say!

The only way one gets to the point, of "not caring about what people say," is by 1. Remembering Who You are, a PERFECT creation of Love. The confusion comes as a result of being told, your whole life, what doesn't make sense. That "you are a sinner and its human nature to sin." And to add more confusion, you are demanded to go against your humanness and not sin, which is impossible simply because nothing on earth has the Power to stop nature from doing what it is meant/here to do. 

2. Because you have forgotten Who you are, Love, you seek outwardly for the only Power (Love) that works, and wonders at that! Here is the catch! It will NEVER be found outside of you because what is Real can not be bought/sold, manipulated, or even lost. You don't remember your Truth which explains why you're willing to defend what you know makes no sense to you in hopes of "making it" to Heaven some day by not sinning. Yet because you do sin "it's human nature," you pray God will have mercy on your Soul and let you "in." Conclusion to that problem is listed below! 

The third and final piece to getting to the place where you don't care about what people say, is by realizing your ONE and only purpose for being here. That purpose is not special because that would signify separation which is always the problem. The Truth is everyone was sent here to BE him/herself, the True self. That Truth in you may not have been nourished growing up and/or Truth is covered up by your story (everyone has a story.) Now that you remember Who you Really are, a Spiritual being (Love,) temporarily in the form of a physical body, you will find within, the Power which answers all the questions to your problems (Love.)

For it is within, will you find Peace of mind, of which, you won't find or get anyplace else. Once you recognize yourself for Who you Really are (Love,) you will stop caring about what other people say because your One and only purpose here is to remind others of Who they Really are (Love.) Then the world will know and live in Peace. Peace