The reestablishing of cordial relations. Reconciliation happens when Truth is recognized for what it is rather than what it's believed or wished to be. Only in the Present moment can one reconcile with another simply because Ego can not stay long in the Present moment. Ego lives in the Past and considering Ego needs conflict to exist, Ego covers up the Present by showing you a Future that looks hopeless because it won't allow you to forget the Past.
Ego has convinced you that holding on to the Past (Ego's reality) is what will protect you from further Pain and Suffering when, in fact, that is precisely what causes Pain and Suffering! Please know holding on to the Past in attempt to not repeat it makes no sense at all. Learning from it (Past) is how to not repeat it.
All learning is done in the Present moment and Ego, all knowing of what makes no sense, doesn't have time to waste on what (it thinks) it already knows, Truth. Ego can not take the stark light of Truth which explains why it makes up its own version and has you believing it to be True.
Choose instead to allow the Holy Spirit to uncover what Ego confused you with, Fear. Its at this point you will see all of what Ego made up makes no sense. It's the recognition and acceptance of Truth that brings Peace and Harmony. The Truth is, because there is nothing on earth worth dying for (that was already done, once and for ALL) what is priceless, Life, is to be valued as the gift that it is. Reconcile, for because Peace and Harmony are guaranteed, and Ego brings nothing but conflict and drama, the results are always positive! Peace