Feelings are what most people confuse with Love or lack thereof. Please know, because feelings change and Love never changes, feelings are never to be confused with Love.
Feelings are the physical expressions of what is going on in the mind. Love is of God and only when led by the Holy Spirit are you able to experience it. Love is a state of being, like Peace and Joy, and because they do not change and can never be taken away from you, Love and feelings of love are two completely different things.
Feelings is what Ego convinces you is real. Because feelings/emotions are temporary and changes depending on your perspective, they are not to be relied on. Any decision made on emotion will leave you with regret because emotions are from Ego. The fact that Ego makes things up as it goes along, and wants nothing to do with Truth, anything that comes from it makes no sense at all!
Love, on the other hand is the only thing to depend on because it never changes and because it is of God, it only heals which brings Peace and Joy with it.
The moment you lose focus of God and the fact that He is in control, at all times, you become afraid and so attack is your first and only defense. Fear, not hate, is the opposite of Love and Fear is what brings the need to attack because Ego uses Fear (it's only defense) to distract and confuse you. The Holy Spirit is ready and always willing to show you the Truth while Ego uses feelings to keep you from Truth.
Feelings, they are merely a reflection of your state of mind. Give them to the Holy Spirit and leave them there! Because Ego is capable of convincing you of what it believes is true, feelings are not to be trusted because Ego is not to be trusted. The Holy Spirit, will show you feelings do not matter because they are fleeting. Do not invest any time in what is fleeting because you will be left with nothing but regret as a result.
Remember, Love is the answer to everything because Love is of God and God is everything. Peace